This is my life today: A loving husband, four healthy boys, and so much to smile about. I’ve found a deep sense of purpose and joy that I once thought was impossible after devastating loss.

Over 15 years ago, I experienced unimaginable heartache when both of my baby daughters passed away just weeks after their birth. The pain was overwhelming, and I was lost in a sea of conflicting advice, unhelpful talk therapy, and support groups that only deepened my despair.

But I refused to let grief define my life. While losing my daughters changed me forever, I realized that I had the power to choose HOW I would be changed. This realization transformed my journey through grief. I rejected the notion that time alone could heal my wounds. Instead, I empowered myself to take an active role in my healing—and you can too.

You don’t have to navigate grief alone as I did, struggling through trial and error to find what truly helps (if you find it at all). For the past 15 years, I’ve crafted a proven path to process the pain of loss and reclaim the life that awaits on the other side of grief. The tools, skills, and system I’ve developed have not only transformed my life but also the lives of hundreds of clients. They can change yours too.