But also not wanting to let loss steal another thing you love?
Would this be what you've been looking for?
WITHOUT feeling pressured to put on a brave face for others AND...
WITHOUT worrying that enjoying the season means forgetting your loved one AND...
WITHOUT ending up completely drained by the new year...
Designed specifically for grievers who want to enjoy the holidays again but don’t know how, the Holiday Hope & Healing Group Coaching Program is a powerful process unlike anything taught in traditional grief support modeled after 16 years of my own healing after loss experience to help you acquire the skills and tools you need to become more powerful than your pain so that you can enjoy the holidays again, even after loss.
Unfortunately, most grievers are told that time will heal their wounds and the best they can do is wait to see if life after loss gets easier. Or worse, we are told that grief is forever and life will never be okay again. This leaves us feeling powerless in our pain and unsure what we can do - if anything - to make life better for ourselves and the loved ones still with us. I refused to accept that waiting (perhaps forever) was my only option and discovered a series of transformational action-steps that changed my grief journey and helped me go from losing hope to a fullfililng life after loss.
The hardest parts of our life do not disqualify us from living fulfilling lives. It is actually the toughest experiences that can inform a future that aligns even more with what we truly want and value. Our relationships can grow deeper and more meaningful, we can become more connected to who we are and what is most important to us, and we can revive the joy we once found in the holidays and other special seasons and occasions. Instead of merely enduring our loss, we can choose to create more fulfilling lives - and holidays - because of it.
This is what’s possible for you in The Holiday Hope & Healing Group Coaching Program.
People keep telling you to give it time
Loving the holidays feels like forgetting your loved one
You want to believe holiday joy can return
But how much time? Forever? You want to know what to DO, not just wait.
But you don't want to have to be miserable to prove your love.
But it's hard to imagine without your loved one.
With the right support and tools, restoring joy to the holidays is achievable for all grievers. In only a few weeks, you can be:
Clear about who you are and what you need This Holiday Season
Confident in your ability to make decisions and guide your Holiday Experience
Free to embrace The holidays without Guilt or worry that more joy means less love
Unstuck from holidlay dread and overwhelm
Truly experiencing more joy and inner peace
Hopeful that future holidays will be enjoyable too
When both of my baby daughters died within six days of each other in 2008, I quickly realized that grief is one of the most misunderstood experiences in our culture. Society offers little guidance on how to truly heal after loss.
As I wrestled with my pain—overwhelmed by grief, exhausted from hurting, and frustrated by therapy and support groups that didn’t help much at all—I decided to take matters into my own hands. I refused to accept that the pain and emptiness of grief had to be permanent, and I set out to carve my own path to healing.
And I was right. Healing is possible after loss, and I discovered how to nurture it in my own heart and life. The skills, tools, and insights that led me to healing—the ones you won’t find in traditional therapy or mainstream advice—are now available to you. None of us have to endure years of struggle, trial, and error to find relief and that includes you.
If I wasn't living proof, I probably wouldn't believe it's possible.
You've been told you are not alone but you sure feel alone. The people you thought would show up for you didn't and you feel like a burden to those who have been there for you.
You've been told the first year is the hardest but it seems to be getting harder, not easier, making it seemingly impossible to know what to expect or what to do.
You've been told to stay positive and practice gratitude like it's some magic cure for grief but that advice only feels invalidating, placating, and makes you want to scream.
You've been told to journal and exercise for relief, but with what energy? You are exhausted in a way you've never been before and feel worried that you'll never fully recover.
What you need isn't more time - it's support and the right tools.
When you join The Holiday Hope & Healing Program, you’ll learn how to support yourself through every aspect of holiday grief and loss so you can cultivate healing in all areas of your life, the holidays being just one of them. The impact will be positively felt beyond the current holiday season.
We’ll go one step at a time through every aspect of the program together so you can become empowered and equipped in ways traditional talk therapy and support groups don’t provide. We’ll focus on actionable steps, not more talking, to take gentle action and get clear on exactly what to do for your heart, mind, body, and relationships this holiday season.
We’ll examine the toll that grief takes on our physical health and what you can do to restore full functioning to your body so you can become someone acutely attuned with the relationship between your emotions and physiology for life-long support. We'll consider the challenges the holidays pose in maintainging our health and make a physical support plan.
We’ll reform your beliefs about yourself and what you are capable of to remove anything that’s in the way of the holidays you desire so that you can move from a grief-defined identity to a grief-informed identity where your pain no longer controls you.
The work we’ll do together will positively overflow into every relationship in your life so you can create connection, understanding, and boundaries during the holiday seaon. Even your relationship with yourself will change as you grow in self-awareness and cultivate unshakable confidence in your ability to guide your life toward deep healing and fulfillment.
By the time you complete the Holiday Hope & Healing Program, we will have reviewed every area of your life and you’ll be more resilient, courageous, and confident than you’ve ever been. You’ll have a powerful tool-kit you’ll be able to depend on to navigate the holidays (and life after loss) in the most fulfilling way possible.
The Holiday Hope & Healing Group Coaching program is 9 weeks long, so we’ll have the time we need to cover everything thoroughly and at a gentle pace.
It’s convenient and entirely online - We’ll meet on a zoom call once a week for live coaching and you can attend my office hours via zoom as needed for extra support.
Can’t attend live? Don’t worry, every session is recorded and available for you to access so you can benefit even when you can’t be there.
Experience the power of group coaching - feel connected, understood, and supported - and learn by watching others. You’ll get coached personally and you’ll benefit from watching others get coached. It’s even more powerful than 1:1 coaching.
All you have to do is show up each week and I’ll guide you and provide all your supplemental materials to ensure your success.
Death and divorce are not the only forms of life-alterning loss. You are welcome here if any kind of loss, even an intangible one, has left you reeling and unsure how to be happy again.
Whether your loss was 20 years ago, or 20 days ago, the Holiday Hope & Healing Group Coaching Program will ensure you are supported and equipped to meet yourself right where you are.
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It is deeply painful to watch someone you love hurting, especially when you are unsure how to help them. I can give you the tools and insights you need to be a better support to a hurting loved one. If you work with hurting people regularly in your job or organization, my program and courses can help you to acquire the skills you need to turn your good intentions into effective care and comfort.
I'm not grieving, but someone I love is, can you help me help them?
Loss comes in many forms. If your heart is hurting for any reason - traditional or untraditional, tangible or intangible, present or past, simple or complex - I can help you. You don't have to have a so called traditional loss to work with me. If you are carrying around unresolved pain for any reason, I can equip you to heal your heart and support you every step of the way.
My Loss isn't a death or Divorce, can I still work with you?
Much of the information available about healing after loss is inconsistent, antiquated, and down right incorrect. I've spent 15 years of my life seeking out the truth about what truly heals to offer support, tools, and a plan instead of unhelpful, generic, or vague advice.
How is what you teach different?
I am not a therapist. I'm a holistic grief coach who uses more than a decade of personal healing experience after the deaths of my baby daughters in 2008 to guide others through loss to healing. My highly effective programs, courses, and retreats are the result of years of learning and practicing what worked for me to heal after loss and seeing it work for others too!
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Frequently Asked Questions
The cost reflects YOUR value, not just the value of the program. That’s by design. Those who get the most from this program are the ones who understand they and their future are worth investing in. They are ready for results and willing to put some skin in the game to get them. It’s the difference between paying a little for a gym membership you never use and investing more in a personal trainer to ensure the outcome you're looking for.
This is not a support group, it's group coaching. That means we don't spend all session talking and sharing. Instead, I lead and facilitate the group intentionally, following the format I created and guiding you toward insight, awareness, and the skills needed to live fully after loss. In a group we make progress faster because you’ll see that you’re not alone and there’s nothing wrong with you. You'll make connection and progress. It's the best of both worlds.
Why is it such a significant Investment?
How is a group program different from a support group?
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